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December 19, 2006

    Far too much time has passed since my last writing, but God has been up to something amazing! Through a series of events, too astounding to be coincidental, I was lead through the 'Gateway to the West' to a job and a house waiting for me in Colorado. In God's providence, the replacement for my former position at Holland & Hart vacated her seat at the Firm and I was suddenly offered my old job back. Within days of accepting the job, I found a bank-owned house failing on the market and made an inconceivable offer. They bit after a round of shrewd negotiations. I have spent the last three weeks getting settled into a place that I can call home, close to our old neighborhood in Erie. 

    The move has not been an easy one; it is the eighth time I have relocated this year. I now have doctors in four states. Since May, I have traveled to each new destination towing a mound of medical records and legal documents in two oversized suitcases. Many of our things were packed in October of 2005, when we made preparations as a family to move to Wyoming. The grief has been unbearable these last weeks, as I painfully unpack year-old boxes, discover these hidden treasures and face the swell of memories and emotions packed within each crate. My Lord has been especially near to me during this time.

    With the steady sorrow there are also bursts of rejoicing and gladness. I am grateful to have known and loved Shane, and  I was blessed with two beautiful babies, Caleb and Ellie. I am finding joy in this journey of faith. I am learning complete trust and total dependence on Jesus, who rescues me everyday from the pit of despair (Psalm 103).  Although I am learning what it means to be content, whatever "state" I am in (Arkansas, Colorado, Texas or Wyoming) it is good to be back in a familiar setting and begin establishing new routines and returning to some known one's.

    Shane and I spent our entire married life in Colorado, which was just shy of four years partnering in marriage and in ministry. I have happy and vivid memories of our time together here, where both of our children were born. It has been good to be reunited with the people I have come to call family at East Boulder Baptist Church. I am also glad my sister Cathy is close by, with my Wyoming family just a short day's drive north and my Texas and Arkansas family a very long day's drive just south of here.

    I start to work in January and as you can imagine, I sure could use your prayers after a 10-month hiatus recovering and healing and learning how to live a new life unlike I have ever known. I am especially asking the Lord for opportunities to share my story, to share His love, His goodness and grace in the midst of heartache. Would you pray with me that many, many people would be open to hearing, understanding and embracing Christ as Savior.  

    Each Christmas season, I am reminded of God's love wrapped in the man Jesus Christ and the gift of eternal life for everyone who believes and receives salvation. I pray, even now, that we would share that great love and this gift with the people we meet. Father, give us the boldness to share your message of hope and let our light shine in such a way that no one could ever doubt that you are the One True God. Amen!

 

November 17, 2006

    How great it was for me to be a part of the WSBC gathering last week! It was rejuvenating, comforting and healing to be with God's people and celebrate the 'Works of God' with Wyoming Southern Baptists.

    I was asked to share a brief word of testimony and passage of scripture on Thursday night at the event. I read from Isaiah 14, verses 24 and 27, which says, "Surely just as I have intended so it has happened and just as I have planned it, so it will stand. For the Lord of Hosts has planned it and who can frustrate it? And as for His stretched-out hand, who can turn it back?"  These verses speak to the majesty and sovereignty of my God. He planned my life from the beginning of time. He does unsearchable things that are beyond my comprehension! These verses truly do speak to the 'Works of God' in my own life. Immediately following my comments, pictures of Shane and Ellie were displayed on the screen, set to the music of "Amazing Grace," in a moving presentation compiled by Lynn Nikkel and Clay Alexander. I was touched by the tribute to Shane and Ellie and I appreciated the thought that went into honoring their lives in this way. 

   What a memorable time! The fellowship, the praise and worship, the messages from God's Word and the prayer time were, in a word, AWESOME! I am so thankful that I was there to witness it all and participate in what I would call a real revival meeting.

    Thank you to all of you that continue to encourage me and hold me up in prayer. The Ewen, Mitchell and Batson families are grateful for your continued prayers, as well, especially with the approaching holidays. I am planning on spending Thanksgiving down South, visiting family in Texas and Arkansas, before heading back to Colorado with my belongings in tow.

    I have shared with many of you that I have sensed that God is calling me back to the West. I am pursuing a job opportunity in Denver at this time and trusting the Lord in all things.

    If you are interested in hearing what God has been saying to me lately, check out Romans 11:33-36, I Peter 5:10-11, Isaiah 41:9b-10, Psalm 126:5-6, and Jeremiah 29:11-13. May the reading of God's Word bless you beyond measure!

November 2, 2006

Casey Writes (10/29/06):

    My last few days in Wyoming were inspiring and uplifting. Dave and Vicki drove me to Billings to visit Grandma Ruth, who is still recovering from back surgery and doing very well. While we were there, I also visited the nurses, doctors and therapists who cared for me at St. Vincent's after the crash. I thanked them for their part in the healing process and tried to encourage them for the important work they do. It was so good to see them again and I hope they saw the evidence of God's work within me - physically, emotionally and mentally.

    At the hospital, I was able to meet a young girl who is undergoing extensive rehab for injuries from a car accident on Oct. 1st. She has a sweet spirit and a strong heart; she needs our prayers for God's healing power to wash over her. (Dear "Sweet Sponge Bob," have faith, be courageous, and trust in God's plan. Many people are praying for you at this very moment.)

   On the ride back to Greybull, we stopped to buy some honey from a local grower. She came to the door cautiously and greeted us. She spoke through the screen door at first. Then Dave told her that he is the engineer who blows the train whistle for her when the engine passes her house. She immediately invited us in to visit and insisted we stay a while. I learned that she and her husband would run eagerly to wave at the train and that her daughter cuts Dave's hair. I also learned that her husband died in March. I was able to share with her that my husband, Shane, also died in March. We talked about loneliness and sadness and God's strength for the journey. Isn't it amazing how our Lord  ;is always working to meet our needs? We stopped that day for honey but shared a special kind of sweetness in those brief moments; words of encouragement and strength that taste sweeter than a honeycomb. (Psalm 119:103)

   I arrived back in Denver on Wednesday by plane and I will be staying with a friend through next week. I have sensed God drawing me back to Colorado in these last few weeks. I am now prayerfully pursuing a job opportunity in Denver and looking for a place to call home. Please continue to pray that I would listen to His voice and follow His will for my life.

   On November 7, I will make my way back to Wyoming to participate in the Wyoming Southern Baptist Convention Annual Meeting in Worland. I am really looking forward to that time and expect great things to come out of this event. Pray for safe travel for all of the pastors, leaders, teachers, and messengers who will be making their way to Worland. Pray also for wisdom as these men and women conduct the Lord's business during that time.

   On November 12, the Ewen clan has planned a family meal in Greybull that I just can't miss! One of the Ewen traditions is to make a Christmas ornament each year and I have never been able to participate before because of work commitments. But this year, things have changed and I am making time for family a priority. In mid-November, I will return to Arkansas and make preparations to move back to Colorado, if God wills it. (James 4:15)

   Thank you as always, dear friends, for praying for me. I am grateful.

October 24, 2006

Casey's Latest Message...

     It has been ten days since I arrived in Greybull, WY by way of Denver directly from Missouri. There is indeed peace in the Shell Valley! There is a serenity here and God has been a great comfort to me. My visit with Dave and Vicki has been good as we continue to grieve together and strengthen one another. There is progress. We have spent some time at the cemetery reminiscing and reflecting. Another season has past. I watched soberly as the fall leaves swept and swirled atop the concrete foundation, which was set at Whaley Cemetery last week. We made a collective decision on the memorial stone. It will be placed in December. May this stone be a marker for all to see and to remember God's sovereignty, "...that all the people of the earth may know the hand of the Lord, that it is mighty, that you may fear the Lord your God forever." (Joshua 4)

     I have spent some time quilting, journaling and studying. Last weekend, I participated in the statewide girls retreat in Cody lead by Vickie O'Brien and India King, with special guests Pat Townsend (WSBC) and Karina America (Baptist Friendship House, New Orleans). The theme was "I will follow Him," based on Luke 9:23. What an awesome time! We had root beer floats and Frito pie, pillow talks, puzzles and nail polish, a hula hoop contest, a fashion show, movie night, and a visit to an assisted living facility--all centered on the message to follow Jesus Christ, with an emphasis on missions. I have always had a passion for working with youth and students and it was so good to be a part of this girls gathering. On Sunday, I was asked to share my testimony and I agreed, with some reluctance (read the Oct 2 entry).

    On Monday, I attended the memorial service for longtime family friend and godly man, Myles Riley. I was reminded of the passage in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 again today, because it seems I am helping to comfort others in a small way, by the comfort I myself have received, both from the Lord and from ALL of YOU. Thank you. God is so good!  

    Pray for the families who have recently experienced great losses: Jerry and Kathleen Ewen and the Michealis family; for the Riley's and the Weant's; and the Brown, Andrews and Nix families. Pray for continued healing and provision for Dave and Vicki and the entire Ewen/Mitchell family.

    Pray for others that you know that need comfort; those that are struggling with loss, sadness, illness or weakness.  

    Pray for the lost. Pray for those who have not found the hope in Jesus Christ or trusted Him as Lord. "For the believer, this world is the worst you will ever know. But for the non-believer, who does not know Christ, this world is the best you will ever know." (As quoted by Myles Riley).  

    Pray for God's voice to be clear to me as I continue to seek Him and follow Him.

 

October 2, 2006

Casey writes:

   Today my sister Cathy returned to school full time, which means she is feeling much better and consequently, I am out of a job!  I thoroughly enjoyed my five weeks of teaching and believe that I will eventually wind-up in the classroom on a permanent basis someday. I am waiting on the Lord to show me what's next in the 'New Chronicles of Casey.'  This really is a new chapter of life for me and there are many uncertainties and unanswered questions. I am waiting with anticipation (and even apprehension) as my Author and Finisher writes my life story daily. I have had several opportunities to share my story publicly, both to individuals and groups. I continue to be baffled that the Lord would choose to use my sadness and my brokenness in this way... how He could take tragedy, suffering and pain and turn it into something good, pleasing, and perfect to accomplish some greater plan. Oh, the depth of the wisdom and knowledge of God. His ways are unsearchable and past finding out!  Who has known the mind of the Lord? For of Him and through Him and to Him are all things. (Romans 11:33-36).   

   On October 7-8, I will be traveling to Glendale Baptist Church in Springfield, Missouri to speak at a Cowboy Church service and Rendezvous. Please pray that I would fulfill the purpose that God has for me there. The following week, I will be in Greybull, Wyoming with Mom and Dad Ewen. I am really looking forward to that time with them; they are hurting and need to be showered with love and prayers. The healing process continues for all of us; it is still very real and painful. I do find serenity in the Wyoming hills and comfort in visiting the peaceful place where Shane, Ellie and Caleb now rest. I will likely be driving the distance from Denver to Greybull and would appreciate you praying for me as I make my first trip alone on the open road. This is also part of the healing process.  

   Would you join me in praying: that I would come to greater understanding of God and His love; that I would appreciate Him to a greater depth; that I would be strong and courageous; that I would embrace suffering and rejoice in all things; and that I would reach out and minister to others.

 

September 19, 2006:

Here are a few words of update from Casey.  Enjoy...

"I survived my first week of school and genuinely love teaching these students. I am teaching English as a Second Language and have students from many, many countries represented in each class. Many of these adults fled their war-torn countries as refugees and came to the States to learn our language and start a new life. Many of these beautiful people have experienced sadness and loss and seen unimaginable suffering. I continue to pray that God will use me as a source of encouragement and that I can share the Reason for the hope that I have. I do thoroughly enjoy teaching.   My Mom and Dad left on Thursday to head back to Arkansas. Cathy has improved and is healing more quickly than expected. She is sore and tired but in good spirits."

Please continue these prayers for Casey...

* For physical strength in the midst of an entirely new schedule and demands on her with the teaching job.

* For opportunities to use this time of teaching to touch the lives of the adults and other school staff at the college where she teaches with her faith and love for the Lord.

* For the emotional strength and comfort she needs in her continued journey through her grief.

* For the spiritual strength and continued healing she needs as she puts her faith and trust in God for each day.  Pray especially for her leg that still gives her pain and discomfort.

* For wisdom, discernment and direction concerning what God has in store for her future.

* For Cathy's continued recovery from surgery.

 

September 8, 2006:

My how time flies.  I know it has been a month since our last update, thank you for your continued efforts to keep up with Casey.

Lots has happened in Casey's life in the last month, but communication has been a little more difficult because of phone problems and lack of email capabilities as she has traveled quite a bit.

As of today she is in Denver, CO at her sister Cathy's house.  Cathy has had some surgery and Casey and her mom are with her to help out.  Cherry is providing some care for Cathy in her recovery.  Casey is substituting for Cathy at her school.

Here is a little bit of what Casey emailed me about this new venture...

"School starts on Tuesday. I have been preparing my curriculum and will be teaching six hours per day! NO nap time here. I have been taking the bus downtown and have fought back the tears as I pass the places where Shane and I shared special moments. The sadness and grief lingers. I just miss him so much! Returning to a job is not going to be easy. There are so many obstacles to overcome; I will certainly need an extra measure of God's Grace to get me through the next nine weeks. The semester ends Nov 9th and I don't know what will be in store for me beyond that. Keep praying for His direction to be clear to me."

Once again, please forgive the lapse in updating Casey's progress and journey.  We will try to do a better job in the future so don't forget to check back occasionally to see what God is doing in her life.

For now, please Pray for Casey...

* For physical strength in the midst of an entirely new schedule and demands on her with the teaching job.

* For opportunities to use this time of teaching to touch the lives of the adults and other school staff at the college where she teaches with her faith and love for the Lord.

* For the emotional strength and comfort she needs in her continued journey through her grief, especially back in a place with so many memories of her life with Shane, Ellie and Caleb.

* For the spiritual strength and continued healing she needs as she puts her faith and trust in God for each day.

* For wisdom, discernment and direction concerning what God has in store for her future.

* For Cathy's recovery from surgery.

 

August 12, 2006:

Here is an update from Casey about her time at Youth Encounter:

My time at camp was just awesome! Although I was there to minister and give to others, when I left Casper Mountain on Friday, I felt like I was the recipient of that very love and encouragement that I was prepared to give. Meeting and interacting with the youth was absolutely rejuvenating and seeing new students come to Christ or renew their commitments to live and serve Jesus is what true living is all about. MTBA was a special place to Shane and it was an honor to be a part of the 20th Anniversary Celebration of Youth Encounter. I loved singing with Brennon & Clarrissa and being an active part of leading the praise and worship segments. I have missed singing corporately like that and really feel like I should join the choir here at Central Baptist Church in Magnolia where my parents attend services. I remember one of the hardest parts about being on complete bed rest with Ellie was not being able to participate in weekly worship services and I definitely missed singing favorite songs and hymns in church. Singing at camp really put my personal adoration and worship of Almighty God in perspective; these services were worship-filled and His presence was so real to me. The theme for the week was also so appropriate (II Cor 4:7-18) and has been the prayer of my heart for several weeks now. Verses 15-18 are especially speaking to me right now; it's amazing that the theme has been prepared for months in advance of camp and yet has relevancy right now and speaks volumes about having an eternal perspective on life. God is so good to me!

For now the cell phone Casey has been using is out of order and being repaired.  So please use her mailing and email address to contact her until further notice.

We will try to update again before long concerning Casey's family trips and her progress with physical therapy.  Communication has been a challenge this summer.

 

July 22, 2006:

  Casey is in Wyoming for a few days - visiting family and also to participate in Youth Encounter Camp at Mountain Top Baptist Assembly (one of Shane's favorite places and camps).  She hopes to help out with praise and worship, and maybe the joy explosion time at the camp.

  She has had some time already to visit at Whaley Cemetery, and Shane's, Elle's and Caleb's grave sites.  She says the grass is starting to grow on the graves, giving her more of a sense of permanence.  It was an emotional time but the cemetery is such a special place and it was beautiful on the day she was there.

  She says, "I continue to pray for guidance, for comfort, for strength, for patience, for joy, for peace and ultimately, for His likeness to be evident in me and His glory known." The Wyoming highway department has now placed two crosses on the roadside for Shane and Elle at the site of the accident.

  Casey also shares, "I have wanted to send individual cards to anyone who has written and expressed sympathy and encouragement but have been unable to write to each one. I want to thank all of those who continue to pray, write and call. In this long process of recovery and healing there is rejoicing and hope. I know that is largely in part of the prayer's of God's people."

  We will continue to update this page of our site as often as we can to assist you in continued prayer for Casey.  Please continue to send her your notes of encouragement - they mean so much to her.  Pray for her as she continues through these days and stages of her grief.  Her outline above of her prayers for herself can be your guide.

  You can Contact Casey here.

 

July 13, 2006:

   On Wednesday Casey saw one of her doctors in the Magnolia area.  The X-rays indicate that the bones are healing very well and cleanly.  He assured her that her remaining pain is very normal and real.  The doctor is very pleased with her progress.  He is prescribing some more aggressive physical therapy with new exercises and more full weight bearing.

  Today she saw another doctor who was also very pleased with her progress.  He is an internist that feels he can better treat some of her digestive/intestinal issues with different medications. He is also advising Casey to move toward getting rid of using the cane within three weeks. 

  All of this is very challenging to Casey, but she is encouraged by the reports and willing to work toward the new goals.  She is also investigating access to some new water therapy options in the area to assist her with her physical therapy.

  The weeks ahead hold some more travel for Casey.  She leaves this weekend for Dallas and from there will fly next week to Denver.  She will ride with Clarissa from Denver to Greybull and spend several days in Wyoming.  She is especially looking forward to participating in Youth Encounter camp at Mt. Top Baptist Assembly.  This was a special camp to Shane who worked on it several years.  She will be visiting other family and friends while she is in the area as well.

  Overall Casey is doing well.  She has much physical progress to make as time passes, but she has made much progress as well.  And she is still dealing with various aspects of the grieving process. 

  Please continue your prayers for both her physical as well as emotional healing that is ongoing.   Pray also for her travel over the next few weeks - for safety, for comfort, and for ease in making all the connections.  Continue also your prayers for her as she considers many aspects of her future.

 

July 9, 2006:

   Casey has been traveling and so communication has been a little difficult for updates. 

   She has been visiting with the Ewen family in Texas and on the move a lot over the last week or so.  She is enjoying the time with the family, visiting places that were special to her and Shane, and meeting with those who have an important place in their lives.  There have been visits to places that were of special significance to them as a couple, which has been both meaningful and challenging all at the same time.  She is in the process of making new memories in all these things.

   She is feeling the effects of all the travel and missing physical therapy.  The days have been longer than usual and car travel is still a challenge.  She is hoping to get into another doctor on Tuesday for some follow up.  She isn't scheduled with the doctor until the 20th and is trying to get in sooner as a walk-in.

   Casey plans a trip back to Wyoming this month at some point.  She wants to attend part of Youth Encounter Camp at Mountain Top Assembly. This was a special camp for Shane over the years.  She also plans to spend some time just visiting friends and family.

   Here's some ways you can pray for Casey...

* Pray that her body recovers quickly from the stress and strain of the recent travels.

* Pray that she is able to get into this new doctor quicker than planned this Tuesday.

* Pray for her continued challenges in the grieving process and for the complete healing of her heart and soul.

* Pray for wisdom and discernment in making plans for the future, both short and long term issues she faces.

 

June 26, 2006:

   Well, Casey has arrived at her parents home in Magnolia.  Remember to check the "Contact Casey" link to continue to send her cards and letters.  Also listed is her email address as well.  She continues to enjoy hearing from those who are praying for her, and receiving their words of encouragement.

   The farm outside of Magnolia is a different life and pace from the activity that has been part of her life the last years and months (in spite of the Purple Hull Pea Festival last week).  So, there is plenty of time for reflection and meditation, and while it is a great time with the Lord it is also a time of a bit of loneliness as well.

   The delivery of her belongings brought the realization that many things had been damaged in the move.  It is a difficult reality that she has to deal with on top of the other grief of her life.  They are continuing to try to work things out with the company.  She says it seems like everything familiar has been stripped away, and it is an experience of daily having to find her strength and hope in the Lord.

   Casey saw her new physical therapists for the first time today.  There had been some regression in her range of movement over the two weeks of transition and move.  But she is very pleased with the new facility and therapists, they seem very knowledgeable and qualified.  She sees her new doctor soon.

   Casey is helping out this week in Vacation Bible School at the church in Magnolia.  She is helping in the "Big Bear Lodge" Bible Study station and enjoying it very much.  She is anxious to be back in ministry that is meaningful.

Prayer Requests:

1. For the Lord to be her close companion in these quite days, and that she can find in Him comfort for her grief and rest for her soul.

2. For those therapists and doctors she is transitioning to work with to have great wisdom and skill in helping bring the needed healing to her body.

3. For her to find needed friendships in this new place.

4. For her to find a place of meaningful ministry and service to fill her days and give her a clear sense of usefulness to the Lord.

5. For the new lives God is putting in her path, and for her to give a clear witness to them.

 

June 20, 2006:

Once again it has been difficult to keep up with updates due to travels, our apologies.

Casey has been traveling the last week or so with good visits in Colorado, including time with family and churches in the Denver area.  She has been on to the Dallas area to spend time with family as well.  Today they traveled to Magnolia, Arkansas.

There have been some very difficult challenges with the moving company that was to move her belongings from Casper to Magnolia.  This has caused additional stress and grief for her that is so unnecessary.  She is hoping to received delivery of those belongings tomorrow by another company, and concerned about possible damages to the property.

*  Please pray for resolution of the moving and property issues as quickly as possible; and for God's grace to help her endure these new challenges.

Pray for this latest in Casey's transitions to another place to live and continue to recover.  Specifically pray for...

... Settling into her parents home in rural Magnolia.

... Resuming physical therapy in this new area with new therapists.

... Eventually sorting through the family belongings more completely and specifically.

*  Continue praying for Casey as she plans her future and decisions that are included in long-term planning; and for God's continued supplying of grace and comfort sufficient for every day.

NOTE: Check the front page for her new mailing address, and/or to contribute to the Memorials she has established.

 

June 10, 2006:

Sorry for the long wait for this update, several issues contributed to the delay, but there are several changes to make you aware of:

The House... Casey has completed her part of the closing, which

should be finalized by the 14th.  The furniture and other belongings have been packed, loaded with the movers, and are in transit to Arkansas for storage and easier access to Casey while there.  This has been a tremendously difficult experience for her emotionally as she separates for a time from the place she knows God called them as a family.

Physically ... Casey has made significant progress in some ways, she is able to spend much more time out of the braces but still needs them off and on through the day.  She has still been plagued by the stomach illness that has been very debilitating at times.  A trip to the emergency room for a day eliminated one possibility, and a visit (including scopes) with a gastroenterologist was inconclusive.  She still has early day difficulties keeping food down, but it gets better as the day progresses.  She will require continued physical therapy for many weeks to come and still has a long way to go.

Emotionaly... Casey is still grieving deeply.  The long hospital stay and need to focus on her immediately physical recovery and stability in some ways delayed some of her experience of grieving and pain.  It is now coming into focus.  Packing belongings and going through personal effects has contributed to that experience.  She is very stable but just experiencing now some very real aspects of her grief in a deep way.

Spiritually... Casey's faith remains strong and her hope in God and his plan is firm.  She continues to be diligent in seeking him and spending time with him in his Word.  She is confident in his wisdom, even though she cannot understand the situation.

Prayer...

  • Pray for Casey and Cherry as they travel.  They left Casper on Friday around Noon, headed for their first stop in the Denver area.  Thank the Lord for provision of a vehicle while they are there for several days.
  • Pray for a memorial service to be held this evening at the Old Country Church in the Denver area.  The service starts at 5:00pm, with dinner on the grounds following, and including a Blue Grass tribute to Shane and Ellie.
  • Pray for Casey's health to improve in regard to the stomach issues.  She needs to have some basic answers so that effective treatment can give her relief.
  • Pray for the Lord to continue to heal her body in so many ways that are needed, to knit bones together, to strengthen muscles and to cause speedy total recovery of balance and stamina.
  • Pray for her as she continues to grieve, and as that grief continue to intensify in these days.
  • Pray for the peace of God to be hers, for his grace to be sufficient, and for him to continue to speak clearly to her about the future he has planned for her.

NOTE:  We will attempt to regularly update this blog a couple of times per week, as close as possible to Mondays and Thursdays, schedule permitting.

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June 1, 2006:

Great news to share in this update...

   - Yesterday Casey saw her specialist for the neck and back, Dr. Turner, and she was stepped down to a soft collar for the neck, and released to sleep at night without either the neck or body brace!  She can occassionally take the soft collar off during the day to exercise the neck muscles.  She said to me today, as she took the collar off, "Look I have a neck again!"  And she said it was great last night to sleep without the body armor.

   - Today she saw the specialist for her hip, leg and arm.  The arm has one bone that has not healed quite as well, but the arm is making good progress.  The hip is not healing as fast as they would like and she has to remain on only about 50% weight bearing for a while.  The bones in the leg are "migrating" back together and beginning to heal, but still have a long way to go.  The movement of the fragments are what has been causing her "charlie horse" symptoms, and while still uncomfortable and painful at times should ease as healing is continue toward being complete.  The overall assessment of her leg and hip is "A+".

   - This great news is celebrated as God's work.  Dr. Turner has commented how amazing her level of recovery in her neck and back is.  But the news is also tempered with the reality that Casey has a long way to go toward complete healing.

   - She is also still working through all the emotions and transitions of her life as well.  Her grief is good, and she enjoys talking about Shane and Ellie and Caleb, and occassionally having a good cry.  But she is filled with hope and the joy of the Lord as well.

   - The days are closing in quickly toward the move - out of the house and starting down south with visits with family along the route to a summer in Arkansas.

Please continue to support Casey...

* Join Casey, her family and us in praising God for the healing she has experienced, and for the new "freedom" of being able to adjust the use of her braces.

* Pray for Casey's continued healing and improvement in the leg and hip, and for complete healing in the arm.  Many days of therapy and lots of healing are still needed, so don't forget to continue to pray for her.

* Continue praying for the closing on the house to go smoothly, and for the packing and moving of all their belongings out of the house.

* Obviously it is still important to support her with your prayers for emotional and spiritual strength as she moves through the various stages of her grief.  Thank the Lord for the strength He has given her so far, and continue to lift her up to Him as the days pass.

* Prayers for Casey and her mom as they begin their travels south next week are so important.  There is a drive to Denver and a flight to Dallas - as they spend time with family along the way.  And then there will be a drive from Dallas back to Arkansas eventually.

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May 24 , 2006:

   There is a lot of news to share in this update...

   - First, the Lord led and opened up the opportunity to sell the house in Casper.  Several things about it came together to give Casey great peace it was the right thing to do. The closing is in mid-June.

   - Casey will be leaving Casper around the 9th or 10th of June to spend time with family in Denver, Dallas and eventually the summer in Arkansas with mom & dad.

   - She is experiencing some difficulty with her left leg.  The rod has shifted causing a permanent "charlie horse" kind of pain and discomfort.  They are working to try to resolve that.

   - Her stomach seems better for now, but is still not completely right.

   - The doctors continue to be very positive about her improvements, especially in her neck and back.  The braces will likely come off much sooner than originally expected.

   - These are very emotional days as she sells the house, packs up Shane's office, looks ahead to a still somewhat unsettled future.  Her grief is very real and deep in these days.

** Please pray for everything to go well with the house closing, and for wisdom in details concerning moving.

** Keep praying for the many continued decisions that Casey has to make in the days ahead, and concerning her future plans.

** Continue to pray for God's comfort as the family faces holidays and special days that are difficult.

** Pray for progress in resolving the issue with the pain in her left leg.

** Please pray for God's complete provision for all of Casey's needs in the weeks and months ahead.

** Praise the Lord for the progress of healing in her neck and back!  

 

May 16 , 2006:

   Casey has had several experiences that are important to relate...

   - The orthopedic doctors in Casper that are working with Casey are very encouraged by her progress, and have indicated she may be able to be out of the collar and body brace much sooner than originally anticipated.  There will still be intense therapy needed, but this is good news!

   - They are still struggling to resolve the ongoing issues with her upset stomach, but a little progress seems to be occurring.

   - Mother's Day was a good day with family in Greybull, but difficult as you can imagine.  Casey and the family have all faced birthdays, anniversaries and other holidays almost back to back that have been difficult.  But Casey is also very thankful for the memories she has of Shane, Ellie and Caleb.

   - Casey is beginning to move around more and more even without the walker.

   - She wants to thank everyone for their continued sending cards, especially those of encouragement, with special verses and passages.  She loves reading those things and they are a great encouragement to her.

   Please continue to support Casey in at least these ways:

** Please thank God for the very positive report from the orthopedic doctors, and her improved mobility.

** Pray for real progress in diagnosing and treating of the stomach issues.

** Continue prayers for wisdom and discernment in the many decisions to be made concerning short and long term plans.

** Please pray for wisdom in regard to needed travel arrangements for part of the family.

** Continue to pray for God's comfort as the family faces holidays and special days that are difficult.

** Please pray for God's complete provision for all of Casey's needs in the weeks and months ahead. 

 

May 6, 2006:

   Visiting with Casey today she wanted to let everyone know that, while every day holds things that bring grief, she still knows she has many things for which to be thankful.  She is especially thankful today...

1. for her family.  Her mom (Cherry) has worked so hard and is so diligent in her care of Casey, supporting her no matter what she is feeling, encouraging her to stay in God's Word.  And for the rest of the family that are all so supportive of her in these days.

2. that God chose her to be part of a family even though they are hurting too.  She knows that there is deep grief for them all, and she prays for them to find peace and comfort.

3. for the four years she had with Shane.  She has been so blessed to have a godly husband, and for the things they were able to share together of faith and from God's Word.

4. for even the short time of being able to experience having children.  She is so thankful for those two lives, Caleb's and Ellie's, that touched her life in such a deep way.

   -Casey is enjoying visitors at the house.  Those wishing to visit can call the WSBC office, Monday through Thursday, between 8:30am and 5:00pm to get a phone number where Casey can be reached.  You can then set up a good time with her for a visit, and get directions to the house.

   -If you want to mail Casey you can send the mail to:  P.O. Box 51994,  Casper, WY 82605.

   Please continue to support Casey in at least these ways:

** Please pray for the transitions that fill her every day, and for the therapy she will continue this week - physical pain is still a real challenge.

** The grief of her losses is very real, please continue to pray for physical, emotional and spiritual strength; and for her to be able to realize each day the joy of God's salvation and presence.

** Pray for wisdom and discernment in the many decisions to be made concerning short and long term plans.

** Please pray for God's complete provision for all of Casey's needs in the weeks and months ahead. 

May 5 , 2006  6:30pm:

    Casey continues to do well at home in Casper as they work through rooms and through boxes.  Yesterday was an especially hard day, Shane's & Casey's wedding anniversary.  It was a time of reflection, thanks for all that they had together, as well as additional realization of the change that has taken place in her life.

   -Rehab in Casper is going well, three to four days a week.  The one thing that is a concern is the electical shock they are using to stimulate the nerves in her arm and shoulder, trying to reactivivate those nerves.  Besides how uncomfortable it is, it seems to be upsetting her system in other ways.

   -Casey continues to sort through all that she feels about the losses she has experienced.  The grief is very deep and yet she knows that the Lord is with her and is in control.

   -Casey is welcoming visitors at the house that would like to come by to see her.  Those wishing to visit can call the WSBC office, Monday through Thursday, between 8:30am and 5:00pm to get a phone number where Casey can be reached.  You can then set up a good time with her for a visit, and get directions to the house.

   -If you want to mail Casey you can send the mail to:  P.O. Box 51994,  Casper, WY 82605.

   Please continue to support Casey in at least these ways:

** Pray for her stomach and system to settle down in spite of the electrical therapy.

** Please pray for the transitions that fill her every day, and for the therapy she will continue this week - physical pain is still a real challenge.

** The grief of her losses is very real and deep, please continue to pray for physical, emotional and spiritual strength.

** There are still many decisions to be made in these days concerning short and long term plans, so pray for wisdom and discernment.

** Please pray for God's complete provision for all of Casey's needs in the weeks and months ahead. 

 

April 30, 2006  9:30pm:

Well, it has been a good, yet challenging, weekend for Casey and her family.  They have been faced with lots of memories and challenges settling in to the house in Casper.  They spent time going through several boxes and even watching some home movies of Ellie and Shane, which has given them opportunity to laugh and cry together.

   -Charles and Kathy left early this morning for Denver where he caught a flight back to Arkansas and Kathy went home.  Casey and her mom are still in Casper.

   -Casey and Cherry went to church this morning at First Southern.   She says it was so good to be back in church, and that the service and Pastor Rob's message were very uplifting for her.  Everything fit together to really speak to her and bring her great encouragement.

   -She will be starting some physical therapy in Casper this week to continue work toward her recovery.

   -Several have asked about visits.  Casey is ready now to begin to receive visitors that would like to come by to see her.  If you would like to visit you should call ahead and schedule a time, so as not to interrupt her routine and to make sure she will be home.  Those wishing to visit can call the WSBC office, Monday through Thursday, between 8:30am and 5:00pm to get a phone number where Casey can be reached.  You can then set up a good time with her for a visit, and get directions to the house.

   Please continue to support Casey in at least these ways:

** Please pray for the transitions that fill her every day, and for the therapy she will continue this week - physical pain is still a real challenge.

** The grief of her losses is very real and deep, please continue to pray for physical, emotional and spiritual strength.

** There are still many decisions to be made in these days concerning short and long term plans, so pray for wisdom and discernment.

** Please pray for God's complete provision for all of Casey's needs in the weeks and months ahead. 

 

April 27, 2006   7:30pm:

Casey's release from the hospital yesterday went well.  She was able to travel to Greybull for a part of two days and overnight.  She, Dave and Vicki, and Cherry and Charles had a good visit.

   - She is now home in Casper!   It has been good to get home, but at the same time tough to arrive to an empty house.  Casey said they may not have lived there together long but none the less there are still memories they have made, and things are everywhere to remind her of their absence.  The next couple of days are going to be especially difficult as they go through things and work through emotions.

   -Physically Casey is doing well, getting around and into the house.  She was released without a wheel chair and on a walker.  But the pain is still very real , and alongside the grief she is feeling, there is a real need for prayer for strength, grace and wisdom.

   -Amid all those things she is dealing with it would be kind of everyone to give them a little space for a few days as they settle in.  Sometime in the next few days, when they are ready, we will post on the web site information on how to make contact with Casey, and to schedule a visit if you like.

 

April 25, 2006   9:30pm:

There is really big news tonight...  Casey has made great progress in therapy and has come to the place that she will be released from the hospital tomorrow!   She is both excited and at the same time in anxious anticipation of the new adventure.

   She has a stop or two to make upon release and will be making her way to Casper toward the end of the week, or weekend.  She will need several days to settle in to the house and figure out the new routines of being out of the hospital.  She would like to have those days to make those adjustments before receiving visitors.  We will update folks later on how to contact her, including a new address to send mail.

   For now, you can continue to support Casey in at least these ways:

** Please pray for the next few days to be filled with God's presence and grace as she makes the transition out of the hospital and into the house.

** There are still many decisions to be made in these days concerning short and long term plans, so pray for wisdom and discernment.

** Continue to pray for Casey and the family as they move on to return to more normal schedules and activities.

** Please pray for God's complete provision for all of Casey's needs in the weeks and months ahead. 

 

April 22, 2006   Late Evening:

This day was one of great and wonderful celebration, mixed with real and personal grief. 

   -The services for Shane and Ellie were a wonderful testimony of a lives well lived in love and service of the Lord.  The testimonies of how God used Shane throughout his life, and how he touched so many with his passion for Christ were wonderful.  The testimony of how little Ellie has enriched Shane's and Casey's lives, and touched the family and friends were amazing for such a short life.  The music was inspiring and wonderfully fitting for the celebration of such a musically talented and gifted life as Shane's.  The messages from God's Word were uplifting and brought much glory to God.

   -Casey made the travel to the service, and through the long day with remarkable grace.  Her presence and spirit ministered to others, as well as she was ministered to by so many.  Thanks so much for your prayers.

   -The family as a whole finally had the opportunity to grieve together in this setting and hopefully find some closure for the days ahead.

   -God provided a beautiful day to travel and be together for such a special time.  Once again, thanks for praying.

** Pray now for Casey and the family to continue to have days filled with God's grace that is sufficient as many of them move on to return to more normal schedules.

** Pray for Casey as she resumes her therapy this week and begins to look toward release from the hospital soon.  She has made wonderful progress, but there is much ahead for her physically, emotionally and spiritually.

** There are still many decisions to be made in these days, so pray for wisdom and discernment. 

** Pray for the safe travel of family and friends as they begin their journeys back to their homes.

** Thank God for such a great time with, and in celebration of, the Lord today!

 

April 21, 2006:

   -Not as much to share today except that Casey had a little lighter day of therapy  today because she had some phone calls about important issues for the days ahead to deal with.

   -She is preparing her heart for a great day of celebration tomorrow, knowing that it will also be difficult.

   -As you can see above anyone interested may contribute to the "Ewen Memorial" fund as outlined above.

** Pray for Casey and all her family to have a good night of rest tonight, and for physical, emotional and spiritual strength for tomorrow. 

** Pray for the trip tomorrow and the first long day out as they travel to, and go through, all the day's activities - for safety, for smooth roads, and for all to go well.

** Pray for safety for everyone traveling in from all over to be at the service.

** Pray for those who will be leading in the services - for grace and peace, and for clear hearts and minds to share the hope that is ours in Christ even in times like these.

** Keep praying for good weather over the weekend.

 

April 20, 2006   9:30pm:

Today we have this news to share...

   -Some of the flu bug symptoms have held on a little through today, but she is feeling really better in general.

   -There is guarded good news concerning her shoulder.  The injection has brought relief to the pain and she is gaining greater range of motion.  In fact, doctors are hopeful the muscles will repair themselves over time and that surgery may not be necessary after all.  They are saying it may be more rotator cuff tendonitous instead of a tear.  PTL! and thanks for praying!

   -The doctors regularly marvel at the rate of her recovery, the speed and the depth of her improvement.  Casey is quick to say she knows what it is - it is the work of God and the power of prayer and faith.

   -She really enjoyed some therapy activity outside today, including walking on the sidewalk with her walker.  She enjoyed looking into the mirror and seeing a bit more color in her face, and it has made her feel much healthier.

   -In the wake of the wonderful physical healing she is experiencing, her heart still needs great healing.  Her's is obviously a deep and profound grief.  As it is for all the family.

** Pray for Casey to have a good night of rest, she didn't sleep very well last night. 

** Continue praying for Casey and her family as they prepare for the services this weekend - that the Lord will strengthen them emotionally, physically and spiritually.

** She still had a bit of stomach trouble from the flu this evening, pray that will subside and be dissipated.

** Keep praying for good weather over the weekend for those traveling, and for the services.

 

April 19, 2006   9:30pm:

It was an interesting day for Casey today...

   The bad news is she picked up a bit of a flu bug.

   The good news is since she had the flu bug she got a break from therapy.

   Seriously, most of the day was pretty miserable.  But they have determined she has a 24 hour strain of the virus and should be better by morning.  She is feeling some better and less nauseous even this evening.  And she did walk just a little later in the day on some new crutches they have made for her.

   Consequently there is not as much to report tonight on her physically. 

   The scripture that has been in her mind today is from Philippians.    " 4  Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! 5  Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. 6  Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7  And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. 8  Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things."   ( Phil 4:4-8, NIV)

   She remembers writing in the margin of her own Bible "the 4:8 test", and is trying to focus on those things that are good from God, and she said she just wants to find God's joy in the midst of all the heartache.  Even in her grief she is just rejoicing in Shane's life and how he touched so many people's lives.  And, she is rejoicing in where she knows Shane is now, with Ellie and Caleb.

** Pray for Casey to find relief overnight and healing from the symptoms of her flu. 

** Continue praying for Casey and her family as they prepare for the services this weekend.  Her brother Charles is especially disappointed he will not be able to make it.

** Keep praying for good weather over the weekend for those traveling, and for the services.

** Pray for the doctors that will determine what needs to be done for her shoulder - and for healing, for decrease in her pain.

 

April 18, 2006   10:00pm:

This was another good day the Lord gave Casey, with several accomplishments and surprises...

   -Casey has achieved "independent status" in her room, which means she has gained enough strength and mobility to be released to use her wheel chair and walker in her room without assistance.  Quite a bit of congratulations from staff today for that.

   -Another goal was for her to be able to walk at least 200 feet twice a day, which she has now done for 2 days in a row!

   -Because of these achievements she has been able to get rid of the support stockings and night-time compression socks.  That should help her sleep better.  She has also been able to go off of some blood thinners which were not comfortable to take.

   -She had a great surprise visit from a couple tonight - family of a young lady Shane visited in the ICU in Casper after she was involved in a bad car wreck.  The couple wanted to let Casey know how much that visit meant, and that the young lady is now active in church and seeking a close personal relationship with the Lord.  All because Shane took the time to visit.

   -It is such a blessing for her to hear how much impact Shane had on people's lives.  She was thinking today how Shane didn't waste any of his time, but was always busy thinking of others and involved in ministry with everything he did.  It challenges her to want to really make every moment count.

-The scripture in her mind and heart today has been "The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer" .  It is from a song that David sang when the Lord delivered him from his enemies.  These are very emotional days for Casey and the entire family, but she says she just continues to trust the Lord for everything, and in all things.

** Don't forget to pray for Casey to be able to continue to gain strength each day - physically, emotionally and spiritually.

** Continue praying for Casey and her family as they prepare for the services this weekend.  Several are having trouble getting flights and time off to come back.

** Thank the Lord for Casey's dad's safe return to Billings to be with the family.

** Pray for good weather over the weekend for those traveling, and for the services; and so that Casey doesn't have as much fear to overcome for her first car trip after the accident.

** Pray for the doctors and the tests still being run and interpreted on her shoulder, as well as on her other injuries - for healing, for decrease in her pain, and for good reports to come.

 

April 17, 2006   10:00pm:

Don't forget:

Celebration Funeral Service

for Shane & Elizabeth Ewen

Saturday, April 22nd, 1:00 p.m.

First Baptist Church - Basin, Wyoming

Located on Highway 30

Burial to follow at Whaley Cemetery

It has been another eventful day for Casey, including:

     A report from the orthopedic surgeon that it appears she does have a torn rotator cuff.  An injection today was very painful, but will hopefully result in some relief.  And there is a very real possibility of a surgery being necessary to repair it.

     She had X-rays of her hip, femur, and arm to check on progress of healing, results will be in tomorrow.

     She had a good crying and laughing session with family both yesterday and today - good grief time - to relive great memories and share about the special times with Shane and Ellie.

     She was able to complete and finalize the plans and order of worship for the services this weekend - which is a relief to her mind and heart.

     She is so thankful for the continued support of people sending cards and coming to visit.  That people will travel hours to come and have a few minutes with her means so much.

    Casey also just wanted to tell everyone "Hello", and thanks for all your support.

** Please pray for Casey and her family as they prepare for the services this weekend.  Several are having trouble getting flights and time off to come back.

** Pray for good weather over the weekend for those traveling, and for the services; and so that Casey doesn't have as much fear to overcome for her first car trip after the accident.

** Casey asks that we pray for the staff and others she has contact with at the hospital.  She wants to be salt and light to them, and to fearlessly proclaim the gospel.

** Pray for the doctors and the tests still being run and interpreted on her shoulder, as well as on her other injuries - for healing, for decrease in her pain, and for good reports to come.

 

Easter Sunday, April 16, 2006   8:00pm:

Celebration Funeral Service

for Shane & Elizabeth Ewen

Saturday, April 22nd, 1:00 p.m.

First Baptist Church - Basin, Wyoming

Located on Highway 30

Burial to follow at Whaley Cemetery

(Additional information will be posted here as available this week.)

This has been a pretty difficult day emotionally for Casey and the family.  She has been working on information to use for the service, and picking out clothes for the funeral.  She has been remembering the family Easter traditions that she and Shane have been building together over the last few years.  As you can imagine, it has been a very melancholy day.

There is not even a break on Easter Sunday as far as rehab is concerned.  Another two sessions today, continuing to work on her mobility and strength.

There is still concern that Casey continues to loose a little weight and she needs to eat more to keep up her strength.  Today her mom brought in turkey and dressing from a local restaurant, and it was a great treat.

We have focused a lot in our updates on the physical progress Casey has been making, which indeed has been great.  And the Lord continues to do wonderful things in every way with all that she faces.  But please don't forget how much she grieves the incredible losses she has experienced, and remember to pray for God's grace to see her through each day.

** Please pray for Casey and her family as they prepare for the services this next weekend.  Several are traveling in from distances away, and they all need God's grace for these days.

** Pray for God to give Casey exceptional progress this week in healing that will help diminish her pain for the travel this weekend.

** Pray for Casey's appetite to increase so that she can improve her nourishment.

 

April 15, 2006   7:00pm:

Top news for the day - the DATE for the Services to Celebrate the Lives of Shane & Elizabeth Ewen HAS BEEN SET...

Celebration Funeral Service

Saturday, April 22nd, 1:00 p.m.

First Baptist Church - Basin, Wyoming

Burial to follow at Whaley Cemetery

(Additional information will be posted here as available this week.)

Today Casey had her trial run outing - it went pretty well, and she accomplished all the goals set for the activity.  The rest of the day they planned rehab activities that she could do while in bed - a welcome respite after the outing.

Casey received a poem from a friend that was especially meaningful to her.  It is one posted on a plaque at the site of the Murrah Federal Office Building memorial in Oklahoma City.

And God Said

I said, "God, I hurt."  And God said, "I know".

I said, "God, I cry a lot."  And God said, "That is why I gave you tears."

I said, "God, I am so depressed."  And God said, "That is why I gave you sunshine."

I said, "God, life is so hard."  And God said, "That is why I gave you loved ones."

I said, "God, my loved one died."  And God said, "So did mine."

I said, "God, it is such a loss."  And God said, "I saw mine nailed to a cross."

I said, "God, but your loved one lives."  And God said, "So does yours."

I said, "God, where are they now?"  And God said, "Mine sits on my right hand and yours is in the light."

I said, "God, it hurts."  And God said, "I know."

** Please pray for Casey and her family as they prepare for the services this next weekend.  Several are traveling in from distances away, and they all need God's grace for these days.

** Thank the Lord that Casey has most of her immediate family close to her this weekend.  And thank Him that on an Easter weekend in 1984 Casey trusted Jesus Christ as her Lord and Savior - it is the reason for the hope that she has.

** Ask God to help her deal with the really intense pain, and to find comfort in Him through prayer.

** Pray for Casey's dad as he has to be away from the family over Easter weekend.

** Pray for God to give Casey exceptional progress this week in healing that will help diminish her pain for the travel this weekend.

** Casey thanks the Lord for your patient and faithful support in prayer, and your wonderful words of encouragement in person and through the mail.

 

April 14, 2006   9:00pm:

Casey had another full, and in some ways an especially hard, day today.

The most stressful and painful part of her day was the need for an MRI.  First, it involved a 2 block transport to another location in an ambulance - it was very jarring and difficult which serves as confirmation that she is not quite ready for a long trip.  Then, the MRI caused extreme pain, like fireworks, because of the metal that was placed in her leg at surgery.  The trip back to St. Vincent's capped off this hard experience.

They are also now discovering through the therapy the possibility of torn ligaments in her left shoulder (the reason for the MRI), which hinders her strength and movement.

She is also needing to increase her calorie intake to make sure she is getting enough nourishment.  She said this was the first time anyone has told her she needs to eat more.

On the more positive side:

* She walked some more today as they continue to try to strengthen her legs.

* They have been able to change her to a smaller wheelchair, which is a great move.

* She asked to share some things with you that she is thankful for...

...the doctor has indicated that her left eye is OK, only broken blood vessels that will heal over time.

...that most of her family is able to be with her, it is a great time being able to be together.

...to be alive - she realizes each day what that means.

As I heard her talk about the pain of her day, and watching how painful it was for her to even go over the cracks in the ceramic tile in the dining room, I couldn't help but comment that she still smiled through it all.  She replied that she just feels it is so important to be a good witness to the staff and others, and to minister to them.  She is constantly engaging them in conversation. 

The song that has been on her mind today has been the chorus, "The joy of the Lord is my strength..."  She says that is so true.  Another they have thought of today is "I cast all my cares upon you..."

** Pray for the family as they have a family Easter service together in her room.

** Thank the Lord that Casey has most of her immediate family close to her this weekend.

** Ask God to help her deal with the really intense pain she feels, and to find comfort in Him through prayer.

** Pray for Casey's dad as he has to be away from the family over Easter weekend.

Casey is beginning to look toward a firm date for services for Shane and Ellie.   We will post them here soon - keep watching over the weekend.

 

April 13, 2006   9:30pm:

We have several things to report today to help you know what is going on with Casey and how to pray for her.

Some of the really positive things include:

1. This morning therapists worked with her to get in and out of a car and she actually went outside, they pulled a car up for her to get in and out of, transferring from her wheelchair 3 times. 

2. She walked over 100 feet again today with her walker.

3. Last night Casey had probably the best nights sleep she has had since being in the hospital.

The reality is that there are obviously aspects of her experience that are not so positive.

1. Sleep is still somewhat fitful, have to reposition several times through the night.

2. Her mom is sleeping in a recliner in Casey's room every night, that is not very comfortable.

3. And, truthfully, Casey is in a whole lot of physical pain that she has to deal with all day, every day.  In reality she is working one day at a time and having to push through that pain. 

3. She does have times of discouragement with all that she is dealing with.

She says that as they teach her about pain management she is finding that her greatest way to deal with pain is through prayer.  She just has to call out to God often, and ask Him to help her get through.

But, in the midst of that reality Casey has been thinking all day today about an old song her grandmother used to sing to her.  We sang it together on the phone.  Want to join in?

"Every day with Jesus is sweeter than

the day before.

Every day with Jesus He loves

me more and more.

Jesus saves and keeps me,

And that is what I'm living for.

Every day with Jesus is sweeter than

the day before."

Easter Sunday they will have a special brunch for patients and their families, and she is so happy that her mom, her brother and his wife, along with her sister and her husband will be with her.  Pray for them as they have a family Easter service together in her room.

Also...

** Thank the Lord that Casey is getting stronger every day.

** Ask God to help her deal with the really intense pain she feels, and to find comfort in Him through prayer.

** Pray for Casey's dad as he has to be away from the family over Easter weekend dealing with some issues with their farm before being able to return.

** Thank the Lord for great visits today with family, and for some friends that drove many hours just to spend a few minutes with her and encourage her.  It really humbles her to see and hear how much people support her.

** Pray this weekend's planned trial outing will go well so she can become more comfortable with trying to get in and out of vehicles and travel around.

Casey is beginning to look toward a firm date for services for Shane and Ellie.   We will post them here as soon as things are more definite.

 

April 12, 2006

Great news today from Billings - several good advancements and answers to prayer. 

1. First, the meeting of doctors and therapists went very well.  They had thought she could have as much as 4 to 6 weeks left in the unit, BUT when they met they are thinking Casey's release could be in 2 1/2 to 3 weeks! 

2. Also, Casey got a great surprise today.  Her mom told her she was going to bring her back a little something at lunch.  Casey was thinking maybe a Subway sandwich.  But when mom walked in she had Casey's brother with her, who had flown back up today to be with her through the weekend.  It was a big lift.

3. And then the biggest news of all - Casey walked about 110 feet with her walker today!  Wow, what progress!  Praise the Lord!

All that activity had her pretty tired and sore by tonight.  She said she is so thankful for the progress the Lord is giving her, and then added that she is really working hard to earn it as well - and she could tell that tonight.  But she knows that all the good things come from Him, and she is finding the truth that His mercies really are new every morning.

She wanted me to say that she continues to be so encouraged by the letters and cards from friends and family, and even complete strangers, who are thinking of her and praying for her.  She has loved reading the short stories of all that Shane meant to so many people she doesn't even know.

 

April 11, 2006   9:00pm:

Today Casey worked with therapists on using the wheel chair - setting the brake, propelling herself using just her right hand and steering with the right foot, compensating for the deficiencies on the left side.  Exercises concentrated on the left quad muscles and lower calf region. There is improved strength each day but this is very painful work on those muscles.  Doctors and therapists are meeting tomorrow to review her progress and determine plans for the weeks ahead.  She has a new molded brace on her left hand designed to reinforce bones that are so brittle while they are making adjustments.

Casey wanted to share with everyone a couple of verses from 1 Peter 4:12-13 ...

" 12  Dear friends, do not be surprised at the painful trial you are suffering, as though something strange were happening to you. 13  But rejoice that you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed." (NIV)

She says that while she knows these verses are specifically about suffering persecution for the faith they reminded her today of how much the Lord endured on the cross for us.  She thought that while her pain is great, and at times seems almost unbearable, his pain suffered for her was so much more.  She is thankful for His love and thinks this is an especially important reminder for us all as we approach the Easter season.

** Be in prayer for doctors and therapists as they meet tomorrow to review Casey's progress - for positive results and outcomes.

** Continue to pray for Casey's father Charles as he drives back up to Billings from Arkansas.

** Pray for muscles in her left arm and leg to become stronger and more mobile with the treatments, and for decreasing pain in those areas.

** Pray for the family as they continue to move through the process of grieving their losses.

Services have NOT been set and are still pending. 

 

April 10, 2006   Evening:

Today was another full day of all kinds of therapy.  They have been helping Casey with the skills she will need to leave the hospital and return home - everyday things related to personal care.  Also, they did lots of work on the muscles in her left arm and leg that have been a little sluggish, trying to work on scar tissue, moving and working and massaging them to gain better use and mobility. 

Casey was especially blessed today by a visit from the Flight for Life pilot who brought her to the hospital the night of the accident.  It reminded her and made her so thankful for all the people who played such a significant role in the events of that, and the following days.  She was able to find out some new information from them that helps her understand the events of that day, things that comforted her.

** Continue to pray for Casey's father Charles as he begins the drive back up to Billings from Arkansas.

** Pray for muscles in her left arm and leg to become stronger and more mobile with the treatments.

** Pray for continued progress every day in developing the strength and skills needed to leave the hospital.

** Don't forget to pray for all of the family, and especially Casey, as they work through and process their intense grief.

April 9, 2006   Evening:

There is not a lot of change to report today.  Again, a little lighter schedule with rehab for Casey.  However, here are a couple of updates - - she did some new exercises (even with some weight resistance), and range or motion is improving;

she had good news - no more potassium has to be taken (horse pills)!  Also, Casey got to go outside on the sidewalk in her wheel chair to get some sun, which as a blessing.

**Continue praying for physical strength and stamina as Casey works hard with therapy, for real and meaningful progress every day.

**Your continued prayers are needed for her and the family to have wisdom and discernment from the Lord for decisions each day, and for the days to come.

** Pray for Casey's dad, Charles, as he has flown back to Arkansas today, and will be driving the family car back to Billings over the next few days.

 

April 8, 2006 (afternoon)

Today is a little lighter day of activity, but still is having therapy every day, even on weekends.  Casey is glad for the break and the time to rest.  She is doing much better getting in and out of bed - less pain, the "log roll" is improving every day.  Her blood sugar has stabilized and she is now off the insulin therapy.  She is so happy they have honored her request for them to play her Christian praise music in her therapy sessions.  It has helped make her feel more of the presence and power of God as she works.  And, of course, that is a witness to others who listen.  Pray for her to have physical strength that is renewed and that ability to stand and walk is restored daily (Isaiah 40).

She is able to grieve more easily now, but in a really very positive way.   She has great faith and trust in God even though situations are hard to understand.  It is especially hard for her since she is unable to be with family as they gather to share their stories about Shane and to have that time of grieving with all of them.  Pray for the comfort of God to be hers and for his presence (2 Corinthians 12:9).

She is making lots of progress, and quickly, but she is still very guarded and concerned about her physical ability to travel, and the doctor is still cautious about giving a firm time frame for her ability to do so.  While this complicates many decisions about when and how to hold the services to honor Shane's and Ellie's lives, she so much wants to be part of that time of celebration and ministry.  One of her greatest desires is to have enough strength to interact with the people whose lives have been so touched by Shane's ministry through the years, and who are all so important to them both; and to be able to minister to them.  All of this makes it important for all of us to be patient in waiting for that to take place.  As she improves and more specific plans can be made we will communicate them here.  Pray for the grace of God to be sufficient for family and friends as they wait in this protracted time of waiting (2 Corinthians 12:9).

Casey is having a great effect on people who work at the hospital.  They are touched by her faith and attitude, and drawn to try to understand her faith.  Pray that she will continue to be a clear witness for the Lord, and for the people that she will encounter as a witness. (2 Corinthians 1:3-4)

 

                                                                  

April 7, 2006  10:30pm & 10:30am April 8th additions

The visit with Casey was a little late and shorter than usual today, so the update will be a little shorter as well.  Rehab is very strenuous and difficult, but is bringing gradual but steady progress. 

When I arrived she was still in her wheelchair and had been up a really long time today.  She has had a haircut that has helped her feel better.  While I was with her she was showing off that the muscles in her legs are getting better, and was even able to lift her left leg off the foot rest a couple of inches!  The sutures are out of her incisions on the left arm and she is moving that arm much more easily.  They think she may have some facial injuries that are just becoming a little more noticeable.

  • As you pray for Casey, ask for swelling to go down in her face and for her left eye to improve its ability to focus.
  • We had a long talk about her grief and her anxiousness over trying to determine the best time for the funeral services.  Pray for wisdom and patience and discernment in those decisions.  And pray for her to be able to process all her feelings about all that she has been through.
  • Pray for deep and recuperative sleep at night - she needs the energy to concentrate on recovery.
  • Please pray for her to have continued strength and to have the physical endurance she needs to what is needed to recover.  She is pushing herself really hard because "I want to get out of here" as soon as she can. 
  • Casey asks that you pray for the nursing staff in the rehab wing - they are so helpful and compassionate, and take such good care of the patients.  Pray that the Lord blesses them.

 

April 6, 2006  10:00pm

Casey's great praise tonight is getting to take a shower!  It felt sooo good!  She is amazed at how much those little things mean to her now.  Doctors are very pleased with her progress.  Today occupational therapy, rehab therapy and recreational therapy all had a shot at her - what a long day. 

She was very pleased to hear a good report on the WSBC ministers and wives retreat this weekend in Cheyenne.  This was an event Shane had been planning that we decided to go ahead and have.  It was a great time of worship in song and testimony.  Casey commented that worship is so important because it gets our minds off of us and onto the Lord where it belongs.

Casey asks that we pray for strength and endurance as she works hard to improve every day, and for rapid progress in making continued advances.  Pray also for her as she weighs and makes decisions about details regarding the funeral services, and for the doctors who must advise her concerning her readiness to attend.  These services are still pending final dates based on Casey's progress.

I spoke with Dave and Vicki Ewen (Shane's parents) today on the phone.  They are doing well, though the time is difficult as they wait for the service for Shane and Ellie.  Pray for them and the family, for strength and patience; and for their safety as they travel back and forth between Greybull and Billings regularly.  Pray also for their family who is traveling back home for now and awaiting the services to return.

I also spoke with Charles and Cherry Batson (Casey's parents) as well.  Pray for them as they take turns being at the hospital with Casey every day, for their strength, and join them in giving thanks for the housing provided for them by Rimrock Baptist Church in Billings.  Casey's sister and husband have returned home and are now aware of the situation.  Pray for them to have continued grace as they process this situation as well.

 

April 5, 2006  9:20pm

Praise the Lord for a couple of important milestones for Casey today: 

  • she sat up a little on her own without very much support; and,
  • she took 3 baby steps with support! 

She said she was thinking today as she was working on rehab - learning to balance herself to sit and stand on her own, and to do little things like brushing her hair.  She realized at some point that these were things she was trying to teach Ellie.  She was thinking how little children do all those things with so little fear, tumbling and falling without much concern.  But for her as an adult it is hard to do that without fear, of falling or failing; trying to muster the courage and strength to do them.

She is really tired today, they push her pretty hard each day.  It is always a very full day, little time to visit guests or rest until evening.  But she is finding time to grieve now in the quiet moments she does have - reading cards and seeing what so many have to say about Shane and what he meant to them.  She is really excited at being able now to find time to be a little sad and to grieve.  It is hard as she thinks about where they would have been and what they would have been doing if the accident had not happened.  Hopefully this weekend will be a little less stressful in regard to rehab activity, and give her a little more time to rest and to process her thoughts and feelings.

They are still waiting to see for sure about when she would be able to travel for a funeral service.  The doctors want her to be really ready for that kind of move, and it could take some time longer than they had first thought.  Once again, we will post on this site information as soon as it is determined for certain.

Pray for her as she processes her feelings and allows herself to grieve her losses; for strength for each day to make physical progress; for rest at night and over the weekend; for wisdom for her and those who provide her care in the days ahead.  Pray for the family as they support Casey and each other, as they wait for the right time for the services, and as they too grieve their losses.

 

April 4, 2006  9:00pm

This has been a very active day with the move to the rehab area.  This area requires a contract with the therapists to push for new limits every day.  Casey has more responsibility for her own care and to eat with other patients in the community area.  But she is glad for those things as they give her an opportunity to meet others.  I am sure that she will be a great witness of the Lord's grace with them all as she has been for so many. 

They are talking about taking the sutures out tomorrow.  She was up more today, some more work on the walker as she is pivoting from the walker to a chair and back to the walker.  She hasn't taken steps forward yet, and that could take another week or so to be able to walk any distance.  They have also discussed a probable minimum of time in the rehab unit of 3 weeks, and will hopefully talk tomorrow about a time when she might be able to leave the hospital for a day trip.

Continue your prayers for her for physical strength and ability to push forward every day, for continued progress in rehab.  Pray for continued good reports on her progress and a time soon when she can take a day trip out of the hospital.  Pray for the other patients as Casey is around them day by day, and for the opportunity I know she wants to be able to tell them of the reason for the hope that she has.

She loves receiving your cards and appreciates so much your prayers and support.

 

April 4, 2006  1:00pm

They have made the move this morning and Casey is now in the rehab area.  This means quite a bit more activity for her as she pushes the limits of her physical abilities.  Pray for her as she works hard at the times designated for work, and that she can get rest when she has that chance.  Also pray that she is able to get longer and more restful sleep at night. This is a challenging transition, so please be sure to keep her lifted up in prayer.

Cards and other mail should now go to:

    Casey Ewen - Room 465

    St. Vincent Healthcare

    P.O. Box 35200

    Billings , MT 59107-5200

Previously sent mail should follow her to her new room.  Since she will be much busier with rehab activity there will be less time to take calls and visit.  I know everyone will respect the schedule and her need for concentration on rehab and then for times of rest when she can get it.

 

April 3, 2006  9:30pm

Casey indicates that today was a pretty hard day with physical therapy, she may have overdone it a little, she is very tired.  There was about one and a half hours of pretty intense therapy.  The positive side of all of that is the therapists and doctors are very pleased and impressed.  So much so that they have offered for her to move to the 4th floor rehab area - a fairly prestigious offer this early in her stay.  That would mean a new level of personal responsibility and work toward strict goals.  It is a big move and Casey is wanting to do the right thing at the right time.  Once she moves there they are forecasting 2-3 weeks in that unit.  She is concerned if she is really ready for that level of activity and responsibility.

Prayer Requests:

  • Pray Casey can get a good nights rest tonight.
  • Pray for wisdom for Casey in this decision, whether to move tomorrow or to stay where she is for another day or so.  She will need to sleep on it tonight and let them know her decision in the morning.
  • Also pray for Casey's sister Cathryne & her husband Sasha.  They left for Russia the day before the accident and the family has not been able to communicate to them about the accident or situation.  They arrive in Denver tomorrow where a friend will meet them and tell them the news.  Please lift them up and ask the Lord to strengthen them as they learn this tragic news.
  • Continue to pray for Casey and the family as they continue to sort through so much information and make important decisions for the future.

Mail to Casey and her parents should still go the hospital:

    Casey Ewen - Room 530

    St. Vincent Healthcare

    P.O. Box 35200

    Billings , MT 59107-5200

The specific dates for the funeral services for Shane and Ellie are still pending Casey's progress toward being able to participate.

 

April 2, 2006 10:00pm

More great news tonight from Casey.  They removed the chest tube this afternoon - PTL!  Casey is very pleased.  My report earlier today was a little off, actually Casey was up in her chair over 3 hours today.  This evening she is much more comfortable, and feeling better.

We shared several times today about the Lord and his work in her life.  Several scriptures seemed especially meaningful.  Casey says that Psalm 8 has especially been on her mind and heart today.  It is worth sharing with you here since it is so meaningful to her...

1  O LORD , our Lord, how majestic is your name in all the earth!
You have set your glory above the heavens.
2  From the lips of children and infants you have ordained praise because of your enemies, to silence the foe and the avenger.
3  When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars,
which you have set in place,

4  what is man that you are mindful of him, the son of man that you care for him?
5  You made him a little lower than the heavenly beings and crowned him with glory and honor.
6  You made him ruler over the works of your hands; you put everything under his feet:
7  all flocks and herds, and the beasts of the field,
8  the birds of the air, and the fish of the sea, all that swim the paths of the seas.
9  O LORD, our Lord, how majestic is your name in all the earth!

(NIV, Emphasis Casey's)

Other passages we shared together yesterday and today were Psalm 103 & Psalm 139.  It would bless you to take time to read them.  Casey said tonight, "As I have served the Lord over these years I have come to know how much His grace abounds."

Want to know more about how to have this kind of peace with God?  Click here.

 

April 2, 2006

They have removed Casey's feeding tube and she is eating more on the soft diet menu.  This morning she was sitting in a new kind of chair and was up for over an hour.  Earlier they had her standing and she took a couple of steps with a walker.

Continue to pray for her as she begins to process things and begins making important decisions about so many details.  Pray for physical comfort in the body brace and as she begins to move around more and more.  She has said it was not as uncomfortable as they moved her in and out of bed today.  And, continue your prayers for her and all the family in this prolonged time waiting for the services for Shane and Ellie, that the Lord's comfort would be with them.

God bless you all as you continue to support the family with your prayers.

 

April 1, 2006

Things continue to progress for Casey.  Today she sat up for almost 50 minutes in a chair!  She is obviously still very uncomfortable, especially as they move her in bed, or in and out of bed to the chair.  Pray for the Lord to give her strength as they continue and begin to increase her movement.  She is still in good spirits and the Lord's grace is very present in and with her, now pray that the Spirit continues to sustain her in these days.  She is beginning to take a soft food diet, please pray that she is able to increase this intake of nourishment.  Some family members are needing to begin the process of returning home, at least for now, please pray or their safety.

Dates and other details of the services for Shane and Ellie have still not been set.  They are still waiting to determine when it will be possible for them to be able to transport Casey. 

 

March 31, 2006 (5:55pm)

Great news today.  This morning they put the back/body brace on Casey and she sat up in a chair for about 10 minutes.  It was difficult for her and tired her out pretty quick, but they were at least able to get that process started.  Then, Praise the Lord, they were able to move her out of ICU and into a regular room!  Obviously, all this moving around has taken its toll on her energy and has been very uncomfortable - so pray for a good rest this evening and tonight.  Please continue to pray for rapid healing of broken bones, as well as for a constant sense of God's peace and comfort in the grief of this tremendous loss.

Tomorrow they will continue to try to get her up some more.  The body brace stays on almost all the time.  They will also do some evaluation about the need for the chest tube and when to remove it.  Pray for wisdom for the doctors and all those who attend her physical needs.  Please continue your prayer for her and the family to have strength and wisdom at every point of decision.

Mail to Casey and her parents should still go the hospital, but to her new room:

    Casey Ewen - Room 530

    St. Vincent Healthcare

    P.O. Box 35200

    Billings , MT 59107-5200

The family is so appreciative of all your thoughts and prayers, and your support means so much to them all.  God bless you as you continue to minister to this family, and as we continue to pray that He bless Casey with continued confidence in Him that brings her strength, peace, hope, and His felt presence with her each day.

 

March 30, 2006 (10:00pm)

The late afternoon report is that the CT scan results were good and that they seem to be able to stabilize Casey's neck without a halo at this time.  They have fitted her for a back brace that includes stabilizers for the neck collar, which they will try tomorrow to put on and maybe get her up for the first time.  They have switched her to a regular hospital bed, still in the same ICU room.  Her kidneys and other organs are functioning very well.  They plan to change her to a pain patch soon.  They also plan to hopefully start limited rehab and physical therapy this weekend.

No funeral arrangements for Shane and Ellie are definite as of today, though some rumors have indicated differently.  There are still many details to consider and decide concerning Casey's ability to participate.  When those details and arrangements are final the family will let us know and we will publish them here.

Casey and her immediate family can still be reached with cards at the hospital for now(listed below). 

The Ewen family home address is:

Dave & Vicki Ewen

720 Hywy 14

Greybull, WY  82426

March 29, 2006

The Wyoming Southern Baptist Family has experienced tragedy in recent days. On Sunday, March 26th , an automobile accident claimed the life of Shane Ewen and his 6 month old daughter Elizabeth Grace (Ellie). In that same accident Shane's wife Casey was seriously injured. Shane, a native of Wyoming , joined the WSBC State staff on January 1, 2006 as the Interim Church Health Strategist, after serving as a consultant in that capacity since October of 2005. 

The accident occurred as the family was headed south across South Pass in central Wyoming . They had ministered at Lander Valley Baptist Church that morning and were on their way in the afternoon to another ministry engagement in Big Piney on Sunday night and through Tuesday. Inclement weather contributed to the accident as their vehicle collided with a pickup. The Ewens were traveling south when the truck traveling north hit an icy spot and spun out of control during a whiteout, crossing into their lane.

Daughter Ellie was killed instantly in the crash.  Both Shane and Casey were airlifted to hospitals in Billings, Montana from the hospital in Lander. Shane sustained severe trauma to his head and heart, along with other injuries.  After all attempts to sustain him, he passed away just after 11:00 a.m. on Monday, March 27th .

Casey suffered a broken leg just below the hip, a broken arm and hand along with broken ribs and injuries to vertebrae in her neck and back.  She underwent surgery late in the day on Monday, March 27th.  She is not paralyzed and is expected to recover with extended physical therapy. She is being treated at St. Vincent hospital in Billings .  Her treatment continues as tests are completed to determine additional needed medical interventions.  These situations will be updated as appropriate on this web site.

Shane was a very gifted man and an integral part of the WSBC staff.  He had a passion for ministry in Wyoming and for fulfilling God's call on his life through this ministry position.  His impact on churches in the state has already been felt, and his work in the area of church health will continue to have profound effect on our work in the state. He has touched us all, and we thank the Lord for the opportunity to have had him serve here in this brief time and have been blessed by his faithfulness to love the Lord, his family and his ministry.

Many have called wanting to know what they can do to help. For now, we ask for and appreciate the prayers of God's people for this family as Casey continues to heal, and as they face the days of grief and recovery ahead.  There will no doubt be many needs and more specific ways for us to support Casey and her family as they walk this difficult journey.  Additional updates on her condition, needs and funeral arrangements will be posted on this web site in the days ahead.  

Those wishing to send cards to Casey in the hospital can do so at the following address:

Casey Ewen - Room 212, ICU

St. Vincent Healthcare

P.O. Box 35200

Billings , MT 59107-5200

When Casey is released from the hospital cards will be forwarded to her and a new address will be posted here. Funeral arrangements for Shane and Ellie are pending and will be posted here as soon as available.